Mason
and Kreger (2010, as cited in Neuman 2012) list six issues frequently
associated with BPD parenting:
1. Difficulty separating
relationships with their children from problems with others – BPD parents may
not be able to allow their children to have positive relationships with people
that the BPD parents dislikes (such as between separated parents).
2. Inconsistent parenting – BPD parents may
treat their children in inconsistent ways (i.e. over-involvement vs. neglect)
3. Unpredictable love – BPD parents may
have difficulty providing children with a consistent feeling of being loved.
4. Feeling threatened by a child’s
normal behavior –
BPD parents may have difficulty allowing children to be angry with them without
retaliating, or allowing their children to indivuate without feeling abandoned.
5. Inability to love
unconditionally –
BPD parents may withdraw love when their children do not obey, or when their
children express anger or disappointment with them.
6. Feeling threatened by a child’s
feelings and opinions –
BPD parents may defend their fragile sense of self by punishing their children
for expressing thoughts, feelings, and opinions that they do not like.
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